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214 与人方便自己方便

2014-07-08 04:47:20| 分类：中国百姓流行俗语 | 标签： |举报 |字号大中小订阅

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出自明·吴承恩《西游记》第十八回:“施主莫恼。‘与人方便,自己方便。’你就与我说说地名如何?我也可解得你的烦恼。”它的意思是说,给别人方便,就是给自己方便。

世上的人绝大多数是良善之人，你帮助了他，给他提供了方便，一般都会记着你的好，你一旦需要帮助或方便时，他们也会提供帮助或方便，甚而“涌泉相报”，即使无力帮衬者，也不会设障碍，使绊子，更不会趁火打劫，减少了你前进中的困难，这也是另一种意义的方便嘛！

如今有些人不知个中滋味，以为争强斗勇方为英雄豪杰，在名利地位面前你争我抢，乃至大打出手，各不相让。其结果如何呢？就如二羊过独木桥那样，谁也不给谁让路，最后都掉到河里淹死了，您说可怜可悲否？

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